Now I have to confess there’s this asshole who I dated like more than a year ago and all we did was get back over and over until I got tired and realized he was kinda disgusting.
In fact, I got back with him because he scared me seriously and I didn’t want him to get really crazy, and also I had feelings for that piece of shit.
When I finally left him like just leave me alone you disgust me the guy kept calling and writing me everywhere he could and he said all those awful things to me even that he had sex with several girls when he was with me, I didn’t even give a fuck just wanted him to leave me alone.
He got a girlfriend but still didn’t leave me alone I blocked him everywhere I could, he recently left the country “sad about his girlfriend” and he decided to write me again from his new number a great deal of horrible things that I deleted without even reading, sad part, to block him I read the last shit he sent me and in a desperate attempt to make me feel bad he wrote “ugly” and now that seriously touched me / also I’m scared because he’s fucking obsessed.
But now I’m thinking that (besides he’s a stalker) he’s a misogyny son a bitch who really wanted me to feel bad about myself but come on like I’m not ugly at all that’s why you’re a fucking stalker and you were surprised when we started dating because I was way out of your league, so just shut the fuck up and leave me alone, live your life, grow up. I’m starting collecting evidence to take legal measures.
IF A GUY IS WASTING TIME ON YOU HE CAN’T MAKE YOU FEEL ANY INFERIOR WITH HIS WORDS BECAUSE HE IS GIVING YOU ALL THE IMPORTANCE THERE IS IN HIS LITTLE CLOSED MIND.
So have you felt the vibe yet? We work hard, we play hard. Sometimes we play hard when we should be working hard.
Daphne Groeneveld photographed by Cuneyt Akeroglu for Antidote S/S 2014, The Romance Issue